Positivity and optimism are central themes to a life of happiness. Putting our best work out there, being generous with our time, and taking care of others are all things we want to do because we know it helps the world become better and we feel better because of it.
But, sometimes we break down. We stumble. We fall. We don’t feel worthy enough and we want to hide.
It’s okay. Go hide, go cry, go shout, go punch a wall. Whatever we have to do to cope with life sometimes we have to do it. Sometimes that is leaning on others but sometimes it’s not. Sometimes it’s being by ourselves and wallowing for a night or two or many.
But, then, we have to endure.
We have to build back stronger.
We have to be aware that whatever we may have gone through; the pain, the sorrow, the tragedy, it all makes us stronger. Enduring the pain and then rising up from it makes us know we can be whole again.
We now know what it’s like to hit rock bottom and resurface. We know what it’s like to feel like we have no way out. But, we found a way.
Or we will find a way. We have to.
Because that courage to fight another day is a gift to the world. It’s an offering to those that haven’t gotten to the level of our despair before and may need to be shone the light when they get into the depths of hell. When they feel there is no way out. When they don’t have the courage we might have.
Use that energy and shine a beam of light forward for others to follow.
We’ve learned the lessons. We’ve earned the courage. Now it’s time for us to create some action and do good with it. For others and for ourselves.
There is no downside to encouraging others and building them up to achieve greater heights.
We all need to take the “it takes a village” mentality as we go through life and remember that if others are doing well and improving then that’s a great thing.
Cheer them on. Applaud them. Help them. Guide them.
But don’t discourage them. It’s okay to provide constructive feedback but simply being negative and shooting down their hopes and dreams doesn’t do anyone any favors.
We’ll be in that situation soon enough and we’ll want to look back and see that there is a cheering section rooting us on in our next endeavor.
Let’s put the ego aside and show our support for others. It’ll give them the confidence to keep going and we’ll have a much more positive experience from helping them move forward which will only help us the next time around.