“Brian is truly an inspiration to work with and will help you navigate your journey to happiness”
Rich Keller, CATALYST, Brand Marketing Expert / Keynote Speaker
“Brian’s curiosity and ability to think outside of the box is contagious. After speaking with him over several sessions I found myself thinking bigger and in a way that was more authentically aligned with the vision I had for my life. Just getting started can be the hardest step of a journey but with Brian, it feels empowering.”
Jackie Sanders, Visual Artist / J Sanders Studio
Navigate Your Own Compass To Just Get Started
Everyone needs a Compass, but most of us don’t know how to use it.
Daily decisions that seem small are what cause us to veer off course.
It’s not about making monumental changes but small microscopic alterations in our daily decision-making to change the future narrative.
But why do we have a hard time doing it?
Fear of Success – This is a confidence issue. We don’t feel we are ever worthy of having what we want and we let the unknown potential “success” stifle our growth.
Fear of Letting Ourselves Down – Trying and failing is hard to deal with and it feels much easier to handle the regret that might come afterward instead of “at the moment” discomfort. Regret can be delayed if we trick ourselves into thinking we might do it at some point.
Fear of Judgment From Others – We put so much stock into what others think about our lives that it can impact the decisions we should be making to live a more enjoyable life.
Fear of Thinking the “Thing” Is Bigger Than It Is – Almost nobody is going to see our initial output but we think the masses are going to scour at it and ridicule us. We think that this is the most important thing to human existence and therefore overthink it.
Fear of Poor Execution – Paralysis by Analysis. If it’s not perfect we won’t put it out. We need to have it formed exactly right before the launch in order to appease others that might see it.
Fear of Rejection – If we put ourselves out into the world we can get rejected because we might act differently from how we think the world perceives us. That causes a rift and might bruise our ego. Acceptance good. Rejection bad. ****That’s how the world tells us we should feel.
Fear of Getting What We Want – Because then we have the responsibility of managing it and committing to it. That puts a lot of fear into us because now we must take action. And with action could come (insert any of the above Fears).
Once we are able to accept ourselves and discover who we are we can start leading our lives in a direction filled with less stress, anxiety, and fear.
That’s when the journey gets real fun!
Is The COMPASS Framework For You?
I’ve found that almost anyone can benefit from the work we’ll do as long as there is a commitment to change. Sometimes that becomes the beginning part of the work to get to that point where real progress can happen.
You may be a great fit for us working together if any or all of these apply
- You are stuck in your career and not sure what you want to really do
- You feel like you want to make a greater impact in the world but aren’t sure how to do it
- You’ve been struggling with committing to a healthier lifestyle and prioritizing nutrition, fitness, and sleep
- You’ve either been divorced or struggled in past relationships and not sure why
- You’re looking for more belonging and feel you aren’t clicking with people you are around
- You are a single parent and feel like you are drowning in keeping up with responsibilities
- You’re tired, frustrated, and feel defeated by how mundane life has become
Your specific case may be very different and I’d be happy to jump on an exploratory call to learn more and see if we mesh well!
The Process
The Start
We’ll dig into when you're most happy and when you feel stuckWe’ll dig into where the areas of your life seem most happy and why you might feel stuck in others
Settle The Past
We can’t build a foundation for the future until we settle the pastWe can’t build anything with a sound foundation for the future until we settle the past.
Find The Reflection
Most people avoid it at all costs because it can be painful.Most people avoid it at all costs because it can be painful.
Just Keep Going
We’ll recognize patterns and cues we’ve formed to make better decisionsWe’ll recognize patterns and cues we’ve formed and we’ll be able to make better decisions on our way to finding happiness.
Schedule A Call
Let’s find out if we’re a good fit