Just because we liked them doesn’t mean we should be with them.
There are many factors that have to line up for it to even get started, and then you have to have consistent growth as the days pass by.
What you should be focused on is how they treat you, how you treat them, do your values align, and is your life vision tracking.
You can’t force it.
You can’t coerce them.
Know what you are worth and show up with it every day.
And you trust they will, too.
The rest works out as it works out.