Get out of the game of “everyone else”
Everyone else appears to be getting lucky breaks.
Everyone else appears to be getting traction.
Everyone else appears to be productive.
Everyone else appears to be happy.
Who cares what everyone else appears to have? The important word is “appears” because we are making stories up in our heads of what we think is going on. We can’t be certain it is true.
We are playing the victim so we don’t have to take accountability.
We could easily replace it with phrasing like, “Everyone else doesn’t have ______ “ or “I’m fortunate I have ______”.
We become what we think about.
The longer we create a narrative with us as the victim our mindset skews negative. The deeper we fall into a dark hole of despair. The harder it is to come out of it.
It’s a slippery slope.