Failure fucking sucks
Being told no sucks
But maybe those “No’s” are exactly what we need. They focus us more inward. They shake us up by telling us we haven’t quite tweaked the dial just right.
We still have work to do.
But in that work, we start to define ourselves better. We start to have a clearer vision. We start to hear “No” a lot less often.
Not because we’ll stop asking the questions but because we’ll have a much clearer picture of what we want to do and who we want to be around.
When we’re more calibrated we have a better chance to run into happiness.
It somehow just gets in the way.